Worst things to say to someone TTC!

How many of us have had things said to us while we were trying to conceive that made you think “why the heck would you say that to me?” I can’t even begin to count the amount of times I have had someone say something and I just want to smack them lol.

“If you stop trying it will happen”

NO, no! There is a lot more to it than just that. For you not trying may have resulted in pregnancy, but for me there is a lot more that I have to do in order to conceive.

“I don’t know why it is so hard for you. I just have sex and get pregnant.”

Really! Was that meant to make me feel better? Cause it didn’t. Thank you for pointing out how my body fails at one of the things it is meant to do, I appreciate that.

When are you going to have a baby?” 

Whenever my body decides it wants me to? How do you even respond to that without losing your mind. 🙂

“You have plenty of time” 

Yes you are right I do have plenty of time. I am only 23 years old. Regardless I don’t want to wait. I want to start my family now with my husband.

These are just the few that people have said. I am sure I will add more as the come to mind hehe.

What are some comments people have made towards you and trying to conceive? Send me an email  or leave a comment below I would love to hear what you have to say. I may add a few responses to a post. 🙂

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